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Showing posts with label Bravery. Show all posts
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Friday, April 22, 2022

Memorial... My Brother: John Michael Schlageter... Fifth birthday home!

 

YOU DON’T JUST LOSE SOMEONE ONCE
You lose them over and over,
sometimes in the same day.
When the loss, momentarily forgotten,
creeps up,
and attacks you from behind.
Fresh waves of grief as the realization hits home,
they are gone.
Again.
 
You don’t just lose someone once,
you lose them every time you open your eyes to a new dawn,
and as you awaken,
so does your memory,
so does the jolting bolt of lightning that rips into your heart,
they are gone.
Again.
 
Losing someone is a journey,
not a one-off.
There is no end to the loss,
there is only a learned skill on how to stay afloat,
when it washes over.
Be kind to those who are sailing this stormy sea,
they have a journey ahead of them,
and a daily shock to the system each time they realize,
they are gone,
Again.
 
You don’t just lose someone once,
you lose them every day,
for a lifetime.
 
Credit: Donna Ashworth

Wednesday, June 30, 2021

My Commonplace Book... African American People of note: Bass Reeves

Currently reading Bad News for Outlaws: The Remarkable Life of Bass Reeves, Deputy U.S. Marshal and am saving, in my commonplace book, notable people that I have read about. My second notable person is an African American name of Bass Reeves. Born a slave but died a legend in America. He was a straight shooter and always got his man. He tried really hard to not kill anyone even if Judge Isaac Parker said dead or alive. Bass even had to arrest one of his own sons.

"In 1887, Reeves was charged with murdering a posse cook. Like the many outlaws he had arrested, he was tried before Judge Isaac Parker. He was represented by United States Attorney W.H.H. Clayton, who was a colleague and friend. In the end, Reeves was acquitted."

"The lengthy and glowing obituary for this universally respected man described him as 'absolutely fearless and knowing no master but duty.'

Over the 35 years that Bass Reeves served as a Deputy United States Marshal, he earned his place in history by being one of the most effective lawmen in Indian Territory, bringing in more than 3,000 outlaws and helping to tame the lawless territory. Killing some 14 men during his service, Reeves always said that he 'never shot a man when it was not necessary for him to do so in the discharge of his duty to save his own life.'”

Legends of America: Bass Reeves  

A statue of U.S. Deputy Marshal Bass Reeves in Fort Smith, Arkansas. 
By Jeannie Nuss/AP Photo  


Tuesday, December 29, 2020

Memorial... My brother John Michael Schlageter (Three years in heaven)

 Another year come and gone without you here to celebrate it with us. Love and miss you, John!

 

If Tomorrow starts without me 

By David Romano (1993, attributed)

When tomorrow starts without me, 
And I'm not there to see, 
If the sun should rise and find your eyes 
all filled with tears for me, 
 
I wish so much you wouldn't cry 
The way you did today, 
While thinking of the many things, 
We didn't get to say. 
 
I know how much you love me, 
As much as I love you, 
and each time that you think of me, 
I know you'll miss me too. 
 
 But when tomorrow starts without me, 
Please try to understand, 
That an angel came and called my name, 
And took me by the hand, 
 
and said my place was ready, 
In heaven far above, 
And that I'd have to leave behind 
All those I dearly love. 
 
But as I turned to walk away, 
A tear fell from my eye 
For all my life, I'd always thought, 
I didn't want to die. 
 
 I had so much to live for, 
So much left yet to do, 
It seemed almost impossible, 
That I was leaving you. 
 
I thought of all the yesterdays 
The good ones and the bad, 
I thought of all the love we shared, 
and all the fun we had 
 
If I could re-live yesterday 
Just even for a while, 
I'd say good-bye and kiss you 
And maybe see you smile. 
 
But then I fully realized, 
That this could never be, 
For emptiness and memories, 
would take the place of me. 
 
And when I thought of worldly things, 
I might miss come tomorrow, 
I thought of you, and when I did, 
My heart was filled with sorrow. 
 
But when I walked through heaven's gates, 
I felt so much at home 
When God looked down and smiled at me, 
From His great golden throne. 
 
 He said, "This is eternity, 
And all I've promised you." 
Today your life on earth is past, 
But here life starts anew 
 
I promise no tomorrow, 
But today will always last, 
And since each day's the same 
There's no longing for the past. 
 
You have been so faithful, 
So trusting and so true. 
Though there were times you did some things 
You knew you shouldn't do. 
 
But you have been forgiven 
And now at last you're free. 
So won't you come and take my hand 
And share my life with me? 
 
So when tomorrow starts without me, 
Don't think we're far apart, 
For every time you think of me, 
I'm right here, in your heart.

Monday, September 7, 2020

Memorial... My cousin Bobby Daron Moon 8/20/1980 - 9/5/2020

 My Cousin Bobby Daron Moon

Born: August 20, 1980

Passed Away: September 5, 2020

My cousin, Bobby has passed away. He was 40 years old and he looked like my brother in ways. I can see the family resemblance. Bobby was my Aunt's first born son and I know he will be, so very much, missed.

Gruetli-Laager, Tennessee – Mr. Bobby Daron Moon, 40, passed away Saturday September 5, 2020 at his home.  He was born in Cumberland Heights on August 20, 1980.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Glen and Marie Schlageter, A.D. and Frances Moon; uncle, Bo Moon; Aunt Susie Schlageter; Great Aunt Nell Layne; Cousin John Schlageter.

 

He is survived by his parents, Bob and Rosa Moon; son, Bobby Dakota Moon; daughter, Alexis Nicole Moon; brother, Chandler Moon; sister, Jamie Willoughby; companion, Ashely King; uncles, Jack (Jackie) Schlageter, David (Lynn) Schlageter, Jimmy (Karen) Schlageter and Deborah Moon Campbell, and Cousins

 

 Funeral services will be 2:00 PM Tuesday in the funeral home chapel with Minister Matthew Meeks officiating with burial to follow in the Swiss Colony Cemetery. Visitation: 4:00 PM – 9:00 PM Monday at Layne Funeral Home, Palmer, Tennessee. www.laynefuneralhome.com

Friday, August 14, 2020

America: Land of the Free and Home of the Brave? or is it?

 Saw this on Facebook, so am posting it because it is true!

"I never dreamed that I would have to face the prospect of not living in the United States of America, at least not the one I have known all my life. I have never wished to live anywhere else. This is my home and I was privileged to be born here.

But today I woke up and... I realized that everything is about to change. No matter how I vote, no matter what I say, something evil has invaded our nation, and our lives are never going to be the same. I have been confused by the hostility of family and friends. I look at people I have known all my life so filled with hate that they will agree with opinions that if they were in their right minds they would never express as their own. It's absolutely unbelievable. I think that I may well have entered the Twilight Zone.....then I saw this and I think that it's pretty close to describing how I feel.

I'm not starting a fight, but it is something to think about. This may open a ton of outraged comments by some. Many who will argue how "wrong" this post is. My suggestion: save your time and effort! You are not changing the reality of what we are living by trying to somehow justify this insanity. 

Nevertheless, I could not resist because we are becoming the Twilight Zone. We have become a nation that has lost its collective mind!

• If a dude pretends to be a woman, you are required to pretend with him.
• Somehow it’s un-American for the census to count how many Americans are in America.
• Russians influencing our elections are bad, but illegals voting in our elections are good.
• It was cool for Joe Biden to "blackmail" the President of Ukraine, but it’s an impeachable offense if Donald Trump inquires about it.
• Twenty is too young to drink a beer, but eighteen is old enough to vote.
• People who have never owned slaves should pay slavery reparations to people who have never been slaves.
• Inflammatory rhetoric is outrageous, but harassing people in restaurants is virtuous.
• People who have never been to college should pay the debts of college students who took out huge loans for their degrees.
• Immigrants with tuberculosis and polio are welcome, but you had better be able to prove your dog is vaccinated.
• Irish doctors and German engineers who want to immigrate must go through a rigorous vetting process, but any illiterate gangbangers who jump the southern fence are welcome.
• $5 billion for border security is too expensive, but $1.5 trillion for “free” health care is not.
• If you cheat to get into college you go to prison, but if you cheat to get into the country you go to college for free.
• People who say there is no such thing as gender are demanding a female President.
• We see other countries going Socialist and collapsing, but it seems like a great plan to us.
• Some people are held responsible for things that happened before they were born, and other people are not held responsible for what they are doing right now.
• Criminals are catch-and-released to hurt more people but stopping them is bad because it's a violation of THEIR rights.
• And pointing out all this hypocrisy somehow makes us "racists"?!

Nothing makes sense anymore, no values, no morals, no civility, and people are dying of a Chinese virus, but it is racist to refer to it as Chinese even though it began in China. We are clearly living in an upside down world where right is wrong and wrong is right, where moral is immoral and immoral is moral, where good is evil and evil is good, where killing murderers is wrong, but killing innocent babies is right, where darkness is light and light is now darkness. 

Wake up America, the great unsinkable ship Titanic America has hit an iceberg, is taking on water and sinking fast. The choice is yours to make. What will it be? Time is short, make your choice wisely!

Not my words but exactly accurate and disturbing!

Feel free to copy and paste. I did."

Tuesday, July 14, 2020

My Commonplace Book... Coraline by Neil Gaiman

 

 “Fairy tales are more than true: not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.”
Neil Gaiman has some of the best quotes!
 
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“Coraline sighed. 'You really don't understand do you?' she said. 'I don't want whatever I want. Nobody does. Not really. What kind of fun would it be if I just got everything I ever wanted, just like that, and it didn't mean anything? What then?”

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“Because,' she said, 'when you're scared but you still do it anyway, that's brave.”

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“being brave didn’t mean you weren’t scared. Being brave meant you were scared, really scared, badly scared, and you did the right thing anyway.”

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“They were having an argument as old and comfortable as an armchair, the kind of argument that no one ever really wins or loses but which can go on forever, if both parties are willing.” 

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“...'Mister Bobo says he thinks it might have been a weasel.'

'Mister Bobo?'

'The man in the top flat. Mister Bobo. Fine old circus family I believe. Romanian or Slovenian or Livonian, or one of those countries. Bless me, I can never remember them any more.'

It had never occurred to Coraline that the crazy old man upstairs actually had a name, she realised. If she'd known his name was Mr. Bobo she would have said it every chance she got. How often do you get to say a name like 'Mister Bobo' aloud?”

Friday, May 11, 2018

My Commonplace Book... I Hold Him Up

While attending the Law Enforcement Coordinators' Symposium in Albuquerque, NM, I read the following poem:

I Hold Him Up

By: Michelle Federowicz

Sunday, December 31, 2017

Memorial... My Brother: John Michael Schlageter 4/22/75 - 12/29/17 (Has gone home to the LORD last night)

 John Michael Schlageter, 42, 

left to be with the Lord on Friday Dec. 29, 2017.

My Little, Big brother (born after me, but was taller than me) has gone home to be with the LORD!. I would always say that he was the classic of "Tall, dark and handsome!" John was slow in movements (such as his nickname of turtle) and he could keep his feelings and words closer than a rock. If he didn't want to talk, you couldn't get him to talk. He was sensitive and was loved! He is and will continue to be missed by his family and by his animal dog friends: Brownie and Tizzy. He was and will continue to be one of my BEST FRIENDS!

He was born in Ft. Oglethorphe, Georgia, Apr. 22, 1975, to George and Jacquelyn (Hatvany) Schlageter. He was preceded in death by both sets of grandparents (Frank and Deloris June (Uhlenbecker) Hatvany and Glenn and Marion (James) Schlageter), A Cousin Stephen Hatvany, Aunt and Uncle Ted and Carolyn (Hatvany) Vinca, Aunt Rosemary Hatvany, Great Aunt Nellie Ruth (James) Layne, along with a baby sister.

He is survived by His parents, George "Jack" and Jacquelyn "Jackie" (Hatvany) Schlageter, of Carrizozo, N.M., Sister Margret Schlageter, Brother Fred and Kimberly (LaMay) Schlageter and several Aunts, Uncles and multiple Cousins.




Monday, February 28, 2011

My Commonplace Book... Timeline: WWI - Frank Buckles - Doughboy

Frank Buckles, Last World War 1 Doughboy, is dead at 110

"Frank Buckles, who drove an Army ambulance in France in 1918 and came to symbolize a generation of embattled young Americans as the last of the WW1 doughboys, died on Sunday at his home in Charles Town, WV.  He was 110

Frank Woodruff Buckles was born Feb. 1, 1901, on a farm near Bethany, MO.  He was living in Oakwood, OK., when the United States entered WW1, and he tried to enlist in the Marine Corps at age 16, having been inspired by recruiting posters.

The Marines turned him down as under age and under the required weight.  The navy did not want him either, saying he had flat feet.  But the Army took him in August 1917 after he lied about his age, and he volunteered to be an ambulance driver, hearing that was the quickest path to service in France.

He sailed for England in December 1917 on the Carpathia, the ship that helped save survivors of the Titanic's sinking in 1912.  He later served in various locations in France, including Bordeaux, and drove military autos and ambulances...

 Mr. Buckles escorted German prisoners of war back to their homeland after the Armistice, then returned to the United States and later worked in the Toronto office of the White Star shipping line.  He traveled widely over the years, working for steamship companies, and he was on business in Manila when the Japanese occupied it after the attack on Pearl Harbor in December 1941.  He was imprisoned by the Japanese and lost more than 50 pounds before being liberated by an American airborne unit in February 1945.

After retiring from steamship work in the mid 1950s, Mr. Buckles ran a cattle ranch in Charles Town, and he was still riding a tractor there at age 106..."

~The New York Times (Richard Goldstein, reporter)~